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This is so fucking important and I enjoyed reading this very much.

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love that i can read this so clearly in your voice. an important read and reminder to myself (!!!) to allow spontaneity, especially with friends. one of my fondest memories from this year was when my friends (a married couple) picked me up after an event for dinner. totally unplanned, just a spur of the moment thing, but such a cherished moment for me.

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You’re a genius.

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before moving to NYC I dreamed of a Friends like apartment where hanging out with friends was casual and a part of life. my grandfather always asks me this question: "Who's house can you turn up at, without notice, and eat dinner?" I think this is a really important question because it signifies the love and openness of a bestfriendship.

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